Making “We” More Important Than “I”

Do you find yourself arguing frequently with your partner? This may happen for several reasons. If one person is criticizing the other, undoubtedly an argument will ensue. The solution here, obviously, is to stop...

Marriage Counseling

As a therapist, I always tell those who come for marital counseling that I will do everything in my power to help them overcome their difficulties and make their marriage stronger and more joyful....

Relationship Tune-Up

People often wonder what happens when a couple goes for relationship counseling. Sometimes one partner wants to seek help, while the other is resistant. Typically, it is the woman who encourages counseling, because women...

To Love Unconditionally

What does it mean to love someone unconditionally? I have often been asked if it is possible to really love someone without any conditions upon which that loving is dependent. I think it is,...

What do Men Need?

Many women believe it is the man's job to make her happy. There is typically less discussion about what women can do to help the man to feel good. I will give you some...

What do Women Need?

I have worked with many women over the years—single, engaged, married, and divorced. While every woman is different, I have discovered commonalities in what they need from a partner. Regardless of what you think...

What Happens in Relationship Therapy?

People often wonder what happens when a couple goes for relationship counseling. Sometimes one partner wants to seek help, while the other is resistant. Typically, it is the woman who encourages counseling, because women...

Ask Gwen: My Desires Count

I am presently learning to act in a way that shows that my desires count too, but wish to balance this with not infringing on others' attainment of their potential, any suggestions? Gwen's Answer: My dear,...

Ask Gwen: Who Am I?

I have been struggling with the question "who am I?" I have just read and re-read the article "Attachment to outcome causes stress". All my remembered life I have been the caretaker person, always...

Ask Gwen: Holding Bitterness

I have just read your article "The Healing Power of Forgiveness" in the March Psymposium magazine. I am holding bitterness, I recognize all the points in your article, but I am at a wall...what...

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