Freeing Ourselves Through Forgiveness

Forgiveness is a difficult concept, yet one that is fundamental to healing. Many refuse to forgive because to do so seems to absolve another of responsibility for hurtful behaviors. Somehow by holding a grudge,...

Finding Balance: The Power of Nature and Solitude

It is amazing to consider the lengths we can go to avoid solitude, or how hard we must work to try to find some. We keep our lives so busy, that a few moments...

Everyday Enlightenment

If we are on a path of conscious awareness, we may hold, as an ultimate goal, enlightenment. Truthfully, few of us see ourselves becoming enlightened masters, but still, we would like to learn some...

Do Unto Others

We can put effort into our own self-improvement, and move along our pathway to a more enlightened way of being. We can learn to center ourselves, perhaps through meditation, and focus on becoming more...

An Infallible Sign of Enlightenment

"An infallible sign of enlightenment: one no longer cares what other people think and say." ~ Anthony De Mello Sometimes one's own consciousness can be a little like an unwelcome houseguest. Awareness of things we...

Accepting Mortality

Sometimes one's own consciousness can be a little like an unwelcome houseguest. Awareness of things we would rather avoid can create discomfort, and send one into a flurry of activity, designed to prevent unsettling...

When Someone Says They Do Not Want to Live

It is frightening if a child or a loved one wishes he or she were not here, or expresses feelings about wanting to die. Many people, at one time or another, think about dying...

Widowed: Will We Love Again?

"People who truly loved once are far more likely to love again." ~ Sleepless in Seattle Losing a partner is a devastating life change. Not only do we lose the companionship in the present, but...

Understanding Suicide

Having worked with many people who have suffered from the suicide of a friend or family member, it is clear that a common feeling is one of guilt. Anyone who knew the person asks...

To Fight or Let Go

A woman once asked me this question: “I wonder if, when a person is told that they are dying from a deadly cancer , for example, and nothing can be done, is it better to...