My desires count too



I am presently learning to act in a way that shows that my desires count too, but wish to balance this with not infringing on others’ attainment of their potential, any suggestions?


you are amazingMy dear, you must do some work with a good therapist. It is so difficult to heal this on your own. You have been traumatized, and brainwashed into thinking of yourself in a negative way. It is good that you have done so much reading, and understand, intellectually, how you have been affected. So much of the kind of negativity you experienced as a child is stored at a subconscious level, and it is hard to access that by ourselves, with our intellect.